Just a thought, but you could post the pertinent information for each person interested in one of your lenses in a poll and let others vote on it. Omit the screen names and anything that might identify them. You don't have to adhere to the results but it might take part of the burden off of you by giving some insight as to how others feel.
THAT, is actually a pretty good idea. but please people, I do NOT want to turn this into some kind of need -vs- greed bashing between people. I will try to generalize as much as possible so you basically get a rough idea. im not sure how effective this will be though, because it seems like a large part is people with a D3100 stuck with just the kit lens, with no money to buy other lenses. that scenario is easily more than half my messages. in those cases, the "need" is that they do not have a lens over the 18-55mm range, but i suppose it would be difficult to find someone that had a camera body, but no lenses.
A few that are not in the US or Canada that have family here that could get it to them. (Im not entirely sure i like the idea of sending it to someone that has to then send it to some one else) surprisingly enough, noone with a camera that has a focus motor in it. no old D60, D70, D80 or even D100. I kinda feel bad, as the manual focusing on that Tamron lens is a little touchy. I will have to see what turns up today and tomorrow. If i was closer to getting a D7000, I would package up the D100 and both lenses and give them away as a starter set. the D100 was serviced by Nikon a few years ago and has not had much use since (we got a D90) plus, the D100 has the built in focus motor.
Theres a few people interested in them to start getting "paying gigs" for various things, and a few amateur people that would like to do some wildlife photography, just for their own benefit, but dont have any reach past their 18-55mm lens. Even someone asking on someone elses behalf, that isnt really on the forum, but could still use the help, but not in the US or Canada. (the person that did the asking is someone i have a lot of respect for here..even in the short time i have been a part of this forum)
so...that pretty much sums things up. If there are any new developments or interesting cases I guess I will report back in. and if anyone in "need" has one of those cameras with the built in motor that will AF my lenses, I would greatly take that into consideration.